Q&A Part One | Teaching, More Kids, Chores | Shamsa

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Q&A Part One, where I answer a few of your burning questions lol.

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  • Yasmine Hashmi
    Posted at 07:18h, 14 November

    As soon as my boy starts to walk…heโ€™s going to start doing the house work! ๐Ÿ˜‰

  • Anisa p
    Posted at 08:11h, 14 November

    Salam sis..your makeup looks really nice mashallah and also your hijab

  • ebonyloveivory
    Posted at 08:11h, 14 November

    A child that did all the chores without being asked to? Instructed? Whoaaaaaa, that must've been lovely surprise :> hehehe But I agree that it's an Asian mentality too sometimes. That "boys don't have to do any of the chores" mentality. But really I am glad that your husband gets on their case to do their chores and help out. None of this "boys stay out of the kitchen" notion ! You and your husband make a good team hehehe

  • Sumzz oxo
    Posted at 08:17h, 14 November

    Aww loved this if Allah doesn't bless u with another daughter I hope he blesses u with amazing daughter in laws!!!๐Ÿ˜ฉ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•

  • Smira Naz
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    Posted at 09:03h, 14 November


  • forsythia yellow
    Posted at 09:16h, 14 November

    I have boys only & I'm like your husband in thinking they should learn to do household chores. Their dad is next to useless but I want my boys to know the basics . It's a benefit for themselves as well as for me. But teaching them is difficult as they don't want to learn & we're all not patient enough with each other. I suppose it's a work in progress.

  • Aadam Hussain
    Posted at 09:23h, 14 November

    My daughter is 6 and my son is 8 they hoover and clean the house with me itโ€™s good to make them do it as they can then help their partners and ma Sha Allah u got a lovely family

  • Rukhsana Hussain
    Posted at 09:36h, 14 November

    You brighten up my life xx

  • Anam Ali
    Posted at 11:14h, 14 November

    Love you sis ๐Ÿ’œ

  • Sumaiyya Omer
    Posted at 11:22h, 14 November

    My sister has 4 boys and a girl she feels for her girl too same as u๐Ÿค“

  • Sameer Sediqi
    Posted at 11:56h, 14 November

    I am exactly the same I have the same problem don't worry about it sis everything we'll be alright i hoow they will grow up to be good boys inshallah lovely to hear you having a chat i have enjoyed the vlog more vlogs like that be lovely

  • Lyla Xo
    Posted at 12:58h, 14 November

    Love your smiling face in my feed

  • Raheela Hussain
    Posted at 13:29h, 14 November

    I currently only have 1 son. Heโ€™s a blessing. I love him to bits. I am longing for another baby so my son has a sibling. Wouldnโ€™t want him to feel lonely. I had many complications and still suffering after the delivery with heart conditions.
    I pray you are blessed with a daughter. May your desires be fulfilled <3

  • Ariannauk1
    Posted at 13:40h, 14 November

    I know what you mean but I feel that deep down itโ€™s because we love taking care of the kids and even as they approach their teenage years theyโ€™re still our babies lol

  • monkeeblue
    Posted at 15:38h, 14 November

    Your future daughters in law will thank you! My son (who's now 28) started doing his own laundry at about 9 yrs of age. As soon as he could reach the controls on our top loading washing machine it became his responsibility. He was responsible for keeping his room proper clean and getting the bins and recyclables out on pick-up day. He had to help in the vegetable garden and yard. He watched and helped me in the kitchen and is a good cook. His spouse actually thanked me for training him up so well in household chores and cooking and she feels really spoiled. Now he's setting a good example for his 3 yr old stepson (who's the light of my life along with my own granddaughter who's 3 months old this week!).

  • M Ali
    Posted at 16:13h, 14 November

    Did you say teaching kids or having more kids

  • Maryam Sha Jihan
    Posted at 17:57h, 14 November

    Assalamu Alaikum, hope you are well. I love all your videos! You are so full of life, with lots of happiness and smiles. It does make my day ๐Ÿ™‚ And girl you soo funny with your own style and accents! Keep these fab videos going, always look forward to everything that you do! Love all your shopping hauls. stay fabulous…may Allah bless you always Ameen x

  • Sumaya Salman
    Posted at 18:03h, 14 November

    Salaam sister Shamasa,
    You should help children with after school tutions extra maths lessons one on one or group.or online teaching or make videos on Math sections and create a website with videos online lessons. You very passionate about maths. That great mashallah
    Such a pleasure watching you .
    Quality content with original content

  • Jekaterina Gremitskiha
    Posted at 18:10h, 14 November

    Shamsa!!!u are a superwoman thinking of one more child!!!u are super woman allahumma barik!!!!

  • Jekaterina Gremitskiha
    Posted at 18:13h, 14 November

    I got 2 older girls and a 6 weeks old baby girl and I never plan pregnancies untill the baby is 2 years.i have 3.5 years gap between .one is 7 than 3.5 and now newborn but I get a really hard kids in terms of colicky catnapping etc and canโ€™t even think of the next one plus I am 35๐Ÿ˜ฑso in theory I also donโ€™t have that much time left as I did want a boy for a change as having girls in the house is crazy sometimes๐Ÿ˜ฑscreaming fighting etc

  • Saima Bryant
    Posted at 18:41h, 14 November

    Love your sense of humor Sis! ๐Ÿ˜‰

  • Kingu 11
    Posted at 19:46h, 14 November

    Salaam Shamsa,
    Trust me it's not only in Asian families- unfortunately in lots of other muslim backgrounds and more like any other traditional families..(christian, jewish, hindu..)few decades ago this was a normal thing in Europe and it is still in some places. Which is sad..I especially find it disturbing when there are brothers and sisters, the girls have to help their mum in all housework from like age 6-8, and expected to be tidy, and even do things instead of their brothers. Allah gave us women hands just like gave men hands so why not do the same chores(when its not like wife – husband case where husband works long hours and wife does the housework. If wife works too then ideally should share chores with husband).

  • Yasmine Hashmi
    Posted at 20:31h, 14 November

    If you went into retail…I would be one of those people who would come out and visit you ๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿฝ not in a creepy way. ๐Ÿ˜

  • Mohammed Rehman
    Posted at 21:00h, 14 November

    Please only do one day retail as your brain too good to waste. Allah has given you teaching skills please always carry on part time.

  • Mohammed Rehman
    Posted at 21:06h, 14 November

    Sundays good if all kids cook basic meal as need life skills

  • Anisah Khan
    Posted at 21:36h, 14 November

    Love it when you upload xโค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธ

  • mia point
    Posted at 23:11h, 14 November

    Mashallah. I only want daughters tbh haha but It's okay if I have boys hamdulilah God blesses us with what he wants to bless us with ๐Ÿ™‚ boys are wonderful as well but I want at least a daughter

  • Clay Jo
    Posted at 14:58h, 15 November

    I just discovered your channels. I've been binge watching your vlogs. You have a lovely personality. Don't handicap your children by nor making them do chores. Most people don't like doing chores. However, like cooking, chores are a life skill that must be learned.

  • Fanta Diallo
    Posted at 16:24h, 15 November

    Salaam Shamsa! I just want to tell you that you are my favorite muslima in England.
    I especially love how random. Very Random you are. I love how u donโ€™t take anything seriously

  • MrMrsboo
    Posted at 18:04h, 15 November

    Think what kind of husband are making for someone one day! You are grateful for your husband's help. They make mess but will get better as they practice!

  • Shehnaz Hussain
    Posted at 00:48h, 16 November

    Great vlog hun. Love the lamp in the background. Very nice.๐Ÿ‘

  • Delia Simms
    Posted at 14:05h, 16 November

    The torture of being one girl amongst 5 bros…comes after they marry…trust me…loool