Q&A Part Three | Dealing with Negative Comments, Hijab, Raising Teens | Shamsa

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Q&A Part Three, where I answer the rest of your burning questions lol.

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  • ebonyloveivory
    Posted at 19:25h, 12 December

    Aww please don't blame yourself for the hate. Like you said, they have nothing better to do with their lives. Just let it wash over you. You and your family are great and continue ignoring the haters ❀😍May Allah (swt) bless you and your family always. ^^

  • Lisa Lyttle
    Posted at 19:28h, 12 December

    Definitely do YouTube. Would miss you Shamsa x I love your outlook on life, such an inspiration. : )

  • Mel Vicci
    Posted at 19:41h, 12 December

    All the negative comments come from FOB's lol.. all you can do is sit there and be entertained by the uneducated scumbags.
    Stay beautiful my sister! <3

  • Aliya Abbas
    Posted at 19:54h, 12 December


  • Taz B
    Posted at 20:08h, 12 December

    "fulfil the urge" lol u had me laughing like crazy then. I will take ur advice on that one.

  • nato b
    Posted at 20:15h, 12 December

    8:47 I think he was objecting to your statement of when the kids drive you madπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ€£ 18:16 who was soothing who? So cute when he was patting your back tooπŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

  • M Ali
    Posted at 20:23h, 12 December

    No negative comments all in the mind if 100 per cent genuine then should not worry

  • Asma Ali
    Posted at 20:30h, 12 December

    Asalamalikum warehmatullahi wabarakatahu
    MashaAllah I really love the way u talk😘😘
    May Allah bless u n ur family

  • Mohammed Rehman
    Posted at 20:37h, 12 December

    Budget. We do home movie nights. Library n parks. Go coffee with friends not meals. Books dvd from charity shops n eBay

  • Mohammed Rehman
    Posted at 20:44h, 12 December

    Volunteer one half day at hospital school or charity shop. It stops depression

  • Mohammed Rehman
    Posted at 20:47h, 12 December

    Tell kids if in trouble. I won't ask questions. Will just come and collect you or send taxi.

  • Raqib Araf
    Posted at 20:54h, 12 December

    Best YouTube blogger may Allah bless you and your family

  • Lahori Food Recipes
    Posted at 20:55h, 12 December

    Your videos are so informative πŸŒΉπŸ’•πŸ‘πŸ»πŸ‘πŸ»πŸŒΉ

  • Pure Soul
    Posted at 21:02h, 12 December

    Hi lovely picking on another just shows these people have problems within themselves; your a smart lady ignoring it is the best option Life is busy as it is who needs abuse, no one carry on doing what you do best YouTube yaayπŸ˜€πŸ‘β€οΈ

  • radah gill
    Posted at 21:03h, 12 December

    You are simply the best πŸ’– if only there was more people in the world like you!

  • Fifa Khan
    Posted at 21:06h, 12 December

    Thank you so much for answer my question I love your video it's make me so happy and relax and I really enjoy the time when I watch your video lot's of love sister God bless you and your family

  • k. sultana
    Posted at 21:17h, 12 December

    Really enjoy ur videos πŸ‘ŒπŸΌπŸ‘ŒπŸΌ

  • Naheeda Parveen
    Posted at 21:33h, 12 December

    Am on maternity leave also, can so relate tp you. Love your videos sis. Keep them coming

  • Sarista Celestial
    Posted at 21:51h, 12 December

    Ignore all those negative comments. I THINK YOU ARE GREAT!

  • g k
    Posted at 22:36h, 12 December

    Girl you are so funny , you make me laugh love ya videos, irgorne the haters they don't matter. Xxxxxxx

  • Rashda Mahmood
    Posted at 22:50h, 12 December

    Asalamalaikum sis. Love youre videos. Please keep them up 😍😍

  • Zara story
    Posted at 23:18h, 12 December

    So u have any advise on how to find a husband as a divorcee ?? Maybe a blog would be nice

  • Zarqa aziz
    Posted at 23:59h, 12 December

    Pls sis don't leave youtube, love watching u and u really make my day brighter. Stay blessed always

  • Big sis vs lil sis
    Posted at 00:34h, 13 December

    Hey I didn't know you have a black husband. Maybe do a video on how you met etc something different I guess and your so funny x

  • Deen Ψ―ΫŒΩ†
    Posted at 00:36h, 13 December

    I am completely addicted to your channels omg i been binge watching your videos for days…

  • MsLoverPower
    Posted at 00:46h, 13 December

    I had to pause to make this comment about shopping. When I was really broke and annoyed of my financial situation, I went to the shopping mall (just before Christmas) and I saw sooo many things I wished I could buy and I said to myself "ok, you're a millionare, you can afford to buy ANYTHING… now see what you really want to buy". And guess what? If I had a bit of money, I could easily spend my sallary on all sort of things, but with that mindset, incredibly, I saw one blouse and a scarf that I liked, but really, not so so much that I would buy them if I had the money πŸ˜„

  • Yasmin Akhtar
    Posted at 01:05h, 13 December


  • Fanta Diallo
    Posted at 03:09h, 13 December

    Salaam Shamsa,
    I will babysit anytime.
    I think u should write a book
    U have so much knowledge and experience

    U love books and I think u will have an amazing book n I speak for everybody when I say we will buy the book

  • Mary Beazley
    Posted at 04:43h, 13 December


  • Ghazala Baluch
    Posted at 07:50h, 13 December

    Do home tuitions and YouTube till the baby goes to school. Enjoy your vlogs, so honest. Bless you.

  • Shehnaz Hussain
    Posted at 11:19h, 13 December

    Great vlog hun. Very positive q&a. Great insight on alot of things. Thoroughly enjoyed it.πŸ’•

  • Rofiat Oyedele
    Posted at 13:43h, 13 December

    I love your sense of humour.

  • Koyes Ameen
    Posted at 17:46h, 13 December

    You and your family are a beautiful family

  • naseem hussain
    Posted at 00:49h, 14 December

    Salam shamsa carry on with youtube for now may be when ayub is in nursery or full time then go back to supply. love you're videos thanks for sharing

  • kamal gujral
    Posted at 02:48h, 14 December

    Maybe it would be possible for you to to a bit of supply and a bit of youtube? You don't go into a lot of personal detail on youtube, so hopefully if students know you have a husband and five children, that's not an excessive amount of detail?

  • kamal gujral
    Posted at 03:08h, 14 December

    You often talk about being married to a 'black man'. There's nothing wrong with mixed race relationships and nothing wrong with mixed race people (I'm mixed race and I love it!) ……if ignorant people make a fuss about your mixed race relationship, hold your head up high and tell them that it's just fine and it's exactly as God wills it to be! You're in the marriage that God intended you to be in, and nothing can be better than that. πŸ™‚

  • M Ali
    Posted at 19:28h, 14 December

    I do not trust women with head scarves they are not that religious as they seem few experiences with them

  • Safia Dawood
    Posted at 22:12h, 14 December

    I swear these positive vibes are coming through my phone. Lol

  • Pakistani Mom Vlogging in uk
    Posted at 15:49h, 15 December

    Lovely you answered very well,liked it😊❀

  • A and Y Channel
    Posted at 07:45h, 17 December

    Hi there I sub's to u plz subs to me tanks

  • zahra bel
    Posted at 08:04h, 17 December

    Masha Allah. Your skine looks so smooth. How do you do this. Love your vlogs.

  • R BK
    Posted at 10:26h, 17 December

    Ooh i didn't get notification 😟

  • Naz B
    Posted at 23:36h, 17 December

    Fortnite.. dont get me started on that. Do your kids pester you to buy battle passes, skins etc ?

  • umer mehmood
    Posted at 09:27h, 18 December


  • annemarie duggan
    Posted at 17:09h, 18 December

    Love your videos