What To Do If Your Partner Puts Their Family Ahead Of You (PART ONE) – The Benjamin Zulu Show

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Benjamin Zulu Ke

  • Ronsay
    Posted at 18:18h, 15 June

    Mr Zulu you are so wise. Keep teaching and preachingπŸ™ŒπŸ™Œ

  • Miriam Joy
    Posted at 18:44h, 15 June

    Haha…love is not a religion

  • Claire Aurugai
    Posted at 20:19h, 15 June

    This is insightful. Its bad when someone makes u feel like your decision to leave family n friends behind is because they are less than or they dont have wise counsel and their family is the only wise voice hence their place in the union.

  • Miriam Joy
    Posted at 22:35h, 15 June

    True, it is necessary to leave and cleave for a heterosexual relationship to work. Well said.

  • Hazel Ogolla
    Posted at 06:12h, 16 June

    Bramwel we love your vibe continue to partner with the wise man

  • Wanjiru Paul
    Posted at 06:48h, 16 June

    Parenting was their duty….they shld not remind us,..thank you.
    My very stubborn dad thinks I shld pay back by educating lastborn..ata Sina uwezo…. And not even thinkng but reminding me i should

  • Sophia Wisdom
    Posted at 07:41h, 16 June


  • Still i rise
    Posted at 09:00h, 16 June

    True…raising children is not a privilege…it's their right to be raised…and raised well…they didn't ask to be born…they should not be your pension plan…stop burdening children …

  • Road road
    Posted at 10:04h, 16 June


  • scot scot
    Posted at 10:23h, 16 June

    That is legendary Benjamin & Bromwel. Those are exactly my thoughts πŸ™‚

  • scot scot
    Posted at 10:25h, 16 June

    don't raise children with grudges, first 5 years of marriage curfew πŸ˜€ hats off man

  • Jane adhiambo
    Posted at 10:56h, 16 June

    Surrogate husband 😁

  • Jane adhiambo
    Posted at 11:08h, 16 June

    Benjamin are you from earth?

  • Angella Nabukenya
    Posted at 12:40h, 16 June

    Even after the 5years i would not want any relative in my personal space. After growing up with extended family around prevention is better than cure

  • Rose Mary
    Posted at 13:37h, 16 June

    Next time talk about blended family…take points Bramwel
    Good conversations with full of wisdom

  • Onyeche Innocent
    Posted at 14:10h, 16 June

    Thank you very much Benjamin for always using English,we from other Countries can understand you very well

  • Heaven Mahlatse
    Posted at 17:14h, 16 June

    More wisdom in this message.

  • Beloved B
    Posted at 18:48h, 16 June

    I always tell people these things and they think am crazy. Thank you Zulu for the confirmation. This was great.

  • Beloved B
    Posted at 18:52h, 16 June

    How I wish I can hug this Zulu man, speaking my mind Jesus Christ. God bless you. African parents are really something. When people plan to have kids at their own pace, they are looked as barren or stupid. In the country I live in, parents cater for themselves and save for their own retirement. No child is responsible unless they want to give willingly

  • Lucyanne Mayaka
    Posted at 20:56h, 16 June


    Posted at 07:42h, 17 June

    Very true you got to put yourself first

    Posted at 07:50h, 17 June

    Very true you got to put yourself first

  • Ruth Mogotu
    Posted at 13:07h, 17 June

    I love this guy's wisdom

    Posted at 07:21h, 20 June

    True bringing up a child is not an investment..it hurts when parents puts all burden to their children.in the name of nilikusomesha..

  • joan vuguza
    Posted at 16:25h, 22 June

    All you say is true Zulu but kwa ground vitu ni different…….